3 questions that lead to intimacy
Seek these little details and you'll a faster train into her heart-through her head. But brace yourself...
1. "What's that crazy something you can see yourself doing at least once?"
Knowing that you're curious about her goals and aspirations makes her feel special. And getting her to confide her dreams makes her think of risk, excitement and a little danger, All these thoughts activate adrenaline and increase sexual desire in her.
2. "What's something your parents do not get about you?"
Questions like this are gold-especially if you're going out for the first time. "You're sending the message that you'll go beyond the obvious when connecting with her," This suggests you might be similarly open sexually. Which is quite hot-for her and you.
3. "Do you have any recurring dreams? And what are they?"
This is a great question (or set of questions) to gauge where you are with her. Watch her body language when she answers, says Bedi. If she says, "I always have a dream that I'm in a play and I don't know my lines" and then crosses her arms, back off a bit. Crossed arms are normally closed emotional doors and she's not going to tell you much to go forward. Ask her what she thinks the dream means, as you open up your posture and invite her answer. To keep the conversation more fun than psychological diversion or headaches, watch her facial expression. "Eyebrows up conveys nonthreatening curiosity- which is sexy," "Eyebrows down conveys judgment-and that is scary."
1. Electric toothbrush: Buy one just for this purpose: Cover it with a sheet, turn it on and gently run the vibrating head against her inner thighs, labia and clitoris, says sex columnist Dina Al-Sabah.
2. Cellphone: Send welltimed, romantic text messages. After you've hooked up and as you get closer, your texts can grow a bit more... interesting (that is, raunchy).
3. Exercise bike: Breaking a sweat together before you really break a sweat together can put you both in the mood. 4iPod There is an attachment for the iPod called the iBuzz Vibrator that stimulates her in time to the music you're playing. And it works best with bass-heavy tunes.
7 reasons your girl is better than this model
1. When she puts on a sheer dress or a see-through salwar kameez, she actually puts it on over a slip. And she lets only you see it without the slip. That's a powerful statement.
2. A night out with the girls means a few innocent drinks, a bunch of giggles and a bit of bitching-not things you'll find on MMSs. Which makes your "That should be fun for you, baby!" sound so much more genuine and not cynical or pointed.
3. When she asks, "Do I look fat?" she's talking to you-not to you, her stylist, her agent and her manager. Your girlfriend or wife doesn't need a staff to make it through the day. She just needs herself-and a little bit of love from you. And she understands if you're working late so send her your love via a sweet SMS.
4. She can carry a baby and a packet full of household stuff across a line of shoppers and the parking without dropping the baby on his head, since she knows the difference between a child, groceries and an accessory.
5. She knows that AIDS and breast cancer are diseases. She cares, as opposed to caring about looking like she cares. And she listens when you tell her that it's something you care about.
6. To her, multiple partners is not something that's a fashion statement. It's something she hopes you'll never show her and something she knows you will never see. And the 'D' word is still a bit of a big deal.
7. She loves dogs because she loves dogs-especially your big Labrador-not because it is cool but because she loves you and the small gestures you make for it (she knows you'll make that same effort for her). And she doesn't crave dog breeds that can fit into a handbag.
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