Wednesday, January 28, 2009

SOME SEX POSITIOPN THAT WILL MAKE UR LIFE EXCITING & SPICY

Best Sex Position For A Woman To Reach An Organism
Coital Alignment Technique Sex Position - This position is designed to greatly improve a woman's chance of orgasm. Most women need to have clitoral stimulation in order to reach orgasm. Traditional thrusting in the missionary position often does not achieving this. The clitoris is about 2-3 cm closer to the front of the woman's body than the vaginal opening. Thus, it is possible, even probable that thrusting misses the clitoris all together. With the coital alignment sex position allows the man and woman's combined thrusting to do the job. This position is basically a revised missionary position, with the man on top each face to face or with the woman on top. What's different is that the man has vaginal sex with his partner from a higher angle than usual, thrusting pressure on the woman's clitoris while he enters and re-enters her in response to her pelvic thrusts.The man enters initially from between the woman's legs which are apart and slightly bent, but then lifts himself further up the length of her body so that his thrusts make contact with her clitoris. At the very same time the base of the man's penis is also being stimulated. By leaning to the right or left of her torso, the man can rest his weight partially on his partner and partially on whatever the platform is for this event. It is important for the man to relax his upper body. The woman can then wrap her legs around his, trying to extend the stretch of her legs so that her ankles are about at the height of his calves. With this position a woman can then begin to thrust her own pelvis, repeatedly making contact between her clitoris and the base of his penis. Basically this is a rocking back and forth in sync sort of thing with the focus on the clitoris and the base of the penis rather than being all about penetration.

Best Sex Position For A Man To Prolong His Organism
Cowgirl Sex Position - This woman on top position, also called the reverse missionary, or jackhammer. In this position, the man lies on his back or sits down in a chair of some kind while the woman sits on top of him facing him, with his body between her legs, and with her groin aligned over his to facilitate penetration. Often the man can delay his orgasm longer in this position because he is able to relax and focus on his orgasm instead of thrusting or balance as in other positions.

Best Sex Position For Overweight People
Doggy Style Sex Position - In this position the woman crouches on all fours with her legs slightly spread, while the man penetrates from behind. For overweight people, doggy style makes sense. Neither person is supporting the weight of the other, no one is required to bend very far and the areas of fat on the body can usually be dealt with effectively because the man has two free hands. This can allow him to lift his belly out of the way or to spread the woman's thighs.

Best Sex Position During Pregnancy
Spoons Sex Position - In the sexual spoons position the man lies on his side, with his knees bent while the woman lies on her side, with her back pressed against his front, her legs slightly parted, her hips tilted to one side, and her knees bent. They line up to align his penis with her vagina, and his penis is then guided into her vagina from the rear. This position allows the woman's stomach to be supported by the mattress.

Best Sex Position For Anal Sex
Cowgirl Anal Sex Position - In this positions the woman is on top of and man either facing or facing away from him. This is a great position because it allows the woman more control over the depth, rhythm and speed of penetration. More specifically, the woman can slowly push her anus down on the penis, allowing time for the anus muscles to relax around the penis.


G Spot Sex Position
Woman on Back Knees Up Over Chest - In this positions the woman lies on her back knees bent and feet on the man's chest. The man is on his knees lifts up the woman's hips. The man must position both his and the woman's hips so his penis will hit the g spot.
Doggy Style - In this position the man should try to position his hips so his penis will hit the front wall of the woman's vagina.
Rear Entry Woman Lying Face Down - In this position the woman lies on her stomach and the man lies on top with his legs out side of the woman's. The man should position himself as high up on the woman as possible to allow for a downward angle of his penis when entering the woman.
Woman on Top Facing The Man - This position is a favorite among woman because they can control the speed and angle. This is a great position to learn what a woman likes, let her teach you how she likes it.


Anal Sex Positions
Missionary Anal Sex Position - In this position the woman lies on her back. In order to achieve optimal alignment, the woman's legs should be in the air with the knees drawn towards the chest. Support such as a pillow under the woman's hips might also be useful. The man positions himself between the woman's legs. This position is often cited as good for beginners, because it allows for greater relaxation then other positions.
Doggy Style Anal Sex Position - The woman is either on all fours, or lies on her stomach. The man approaches and penetrates from the rear. This position maximizes the depth of penetration, which may be desirable by either or both partners, but can pose the risk of pushing against the sigmoid colon. This position makes easier a more vigorous thrusting action. A variation is the leapfrog position, in which the receptive partner angles the torso downward.
Rear Entry Position - This position involves the woman lying flat and face down, with the man straddling the thighs of the receiving partner. This can produce sensations different from the doggy position above.
Spooning Anal Sex Position - The man and woman both lie on their sides facing the same direction. This position allows the woman to greatly control initial entry and the depth, speed and force of subsequent thrusting.Cowgirl or Reverse
Cowgirl Anal Sex Position - In these positions the woman is on top of and straddling the man either facing or facing away from the man. This is a great beginning position, as this position allows the woman more control over the depth, rhythm and speed of penetration. More specifically, the woman can slowly push her anus down on the penis, allowing time for the anus muscles to relax around the penis before deciding to start riding up and down on the penis.Pick-up
Anal Sex Position – This position can be done on bed for greater intimacy, but can also be done standing up. With the woman on her back and the man on his knees, the man puts the woman's legs on top of his shoulders. The man then wraps his arms underneath the woman, lifting her off the bed while leaning back for balance. The man is supporting almost the entire weight of the woman's body, and moves the body up and down on top of his penis until ejaculation.
Cradle Anal Sex Position – This position can be done in a chair or a couch. The man sits on couch and the woman sits horizontally in the lap of the man. The man inserts his penis into anus of the woman while he wraps one arm around the shoulders and back of the woman and the other arm around the her knees and legs, and picks up the woman to craddle her. The woman can masturbate while the man rocks the her back and forth and up and down on top of his penis.
Dancing Dolphin Sex Position – This position is done in a spa or swimming pool. The man seats himself on the spa or pool step, so that his lower back is arched yet firm. The woman then slowly sits herself onto the man's penis. The woman then swivels in the water with the man's penis still deep inside her anus; using the spa or pool water to aid in anal lubrication and cooling. The man then slides off the step to thrust the anal probe deep into the woman's ass, while she treads water and masturbates.

Thirty one tips for women to make sex great for men

1) Learn how he likes his penis to be handled
His penis is not like your clitoris - it's not highly sensitive and delicate. So he'll want you to go straight for his penis during sex, and once you're there he'll want you to apply a firm pressure (though you can make sex last longer by teasing him and working gradually down his body towards his penis). Learn how he masturbates, if necessary by watching him, and you'll soon see the kind of stroke and pressure he appreciates most.
2) Play with his balls
Because men are so penis-centred, they and their partners tend to forget how sensitive and erotic his scrotum and testicles can be. Play with his balls as you give him fellatio, for example, and he'll be in heaven. You could even try taking one at a time into your mouth and gently rolling it around.
3) Play with his perineum
If you haven't discovered the erotic potential of his perineum yet - that's the area between his scrotum and anus - then another treat's in store. You can press, lick, stroke and tease this area, right up to his anus, and increase his sexual excitement enormously.
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4) When he comes, stimulate his anus
A finger on his anus when he comes can make a man's orgasm feel much more intense. If he's near his orgasm, it can make him come there and then. And if you put a (well-lubed) finger inside him and press his prostate gland when he comes, he's likely to have a massive orgasm!
5) Talk dirty as you make love
A lot of women are too inhibited to talk dirty during sex, but I'd say most men like it - a lot. If you tell him to "fuck my hot wet cunt" when you're both enjoying sex, he's most likely to come there and then!
6) Do something different
If you always employ the same old routine during sex, do something different. For example, try a different sex position. If you usually have sex with him on top, roll over so you're doing it on your sides, facing each other. If you haven't tried woman on top, get up there and ride him. If he likes rear entry (and which man doesn't?) then let him enter you from behind while you lie in the spoons position on the bed - that's more intimate than rear entry but probably just as exciting for him. Or take the initiative, and seduce him in the kitchen, making love on the table or the floor! These positions are especially fun to try when you're feeling horny.
7) Try watching porn together
Men like porn, and whether you appreciate it or not, it's here to stay, and he's most likely using it to get off. But the good news is that there is some nice erotic stuff around that isn't abusive to women. One name to watch out for is Femme Productions. Sharing a sexy DVD before you go to bed can really add a spark of passion and excitement to your sex.
8) Wake him up in the night for sex
A woman can always seduce a man subtly if she puts her mind to it. So see what happens if you press your buttocks up against him in the night, or if you press your hot vulva against his cock as he slumbers. Move your hips around a little as you do this, and he'll soon be raring to go. This might be best reserved for the nights you don't have an early start next day.
9) Use lube if you need to - or even if you don't
Even if you have a nicely moist vagina, a little extra lube is often a revelation. Just a squirt of Astroglide or Probe can change the feel of sex completely, making it seem like a new experience.
10) Try lube inside the condom
Just a little lube inside the condom can make sex much more pleasurable, but don't use too much or it might just slip off when you least expect it!
11) Be assertive during sex
Take the lead during sex, act like a sex goddess, and do all the work for a change. Men like their partners to be assertive and sexually dominant from time to time, because having the responsibility for always initiating sex is tiring and involves at least some rejection. It's a refreshing change when a woman acts as the dominant partner.Yes, girls, men want you to sometimes take the lead and be sexually assertive. If you aren't sure how to do this, start by climbing on top of him - the woman on top position can be very empowering for you, and he's sure to love it. You can control the depth and speed of thrusting, especially if you tell him to lie still and enjoy it while you ride him! Check out sex positions here: http://www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com/index.html A Lovers' Guide to Sex Positions
12) Let him masturbate between your breasts
Ladies, you just don't appreciate how much men like breasts. Even if you're used to him making a bee-line for them when you make love, you still don't know....just take it from me, it's like being in heaven when you fold them around his penis and let him thrust between them.
13) Alternate shallow and deep thrusts during vaginal intercourse
Men often like deep thrusting because it feels more powerful and sexy - and it makes them come quicker. But a good plan is to switch between deep thrusts and shallow ones as you make love, because shallow thrusts delay his orgasm, stimulate his glans and frenulum (the most sensitive bits of his penis), and they also hit your G-spot.
14) Press back against him as he thrusts
You don't have to be passive during sex. Even in the man on top position you can thrust back against him, buck your pelvis, and add all your sexual energy to his. If you're having sex in the rear entry position, get him to stand still while you move back and forth along his penis.
15) Tell him you how much you want him to fuck you
Assuming your man is just like the rest of us, he'll want to be told how much you admire, like and desire him. Whereas women want to be cherished by their partners, the corresponding desire in men is to be respected. Telling him how skillful and desirable he is as a lover will press all the right buttons.
16) Masturbate in front of him...
If you feel inhibited about masturbating in front of your partner - don't. Seeing you bring yourself off is just about as exciting as it gets for him.
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17) ...then make love to him
If you masturbate in front of him, he'll get so turned on, he'll be desperate to fuck you, and he won't last long when he does!
18) Teach him how you like him to masturbate you
Men aren't the most subtle creatures in the world when it comes to masturbation, so you may need to coach him in the best ways for you to reach orgasm. Show him what you like, how you like to be touched, and how this changes as you get more aroused.
19) Have your orgasm before he enters you
This is especially good for men who come quite quickly. If he goes down on you (or masturbates you) until you have an orgasm, the pressure on him not to come quickly during sex is much reduced. What's more, making love to you after you've had an orgasm means your vagina will still be hot, wet and swollen, and this will be a real turn-on for him, not to mention the fact that it will feel absolutely wonderful for him when he penetrates you.
20) Undress in front of him
Yes, we know you're self-conscious about your body. But here's the good news - he likes it. He knows it intimately, he makes love to it, and he sees it as a thing of beauty; he doesn't look for the flaws in it, like you might be tempted to do. So he'll love watching you undress, and if you add a little innocent seduction into the process, he'll get turned on and show you how much he appreciates your body when you do make love.
21) Buy some sexy underwear and wear it like it was made for you
You don't have to feel like a tart if you buy some sexy lingerie and act like a tease. High quality, pretty underwear is a turn on for both men and women.
22) Be wanton
It's a common male fantasy to be bedded by a wanton woman who'll act dirty and uninhibited. You can help him fulfill that fantasy by unleashing the sex goddess in yourself for a night. For example, try whispering to him when you're having a night out that you aren't wearing any underwear and that you're oozing with desire for him. See the look on his face and you'll know what I mean - but be prepared to have sex the moment you get through your door when you arrive home!
23) Ask him about his sexual fantasies - and perhaps act them out
But don't laugh when he tells you what they are. He may not have shared his innermost fantasies with you for all kinds of reasons; they may even be some of his deepest secrets. Even if you don't want to act them out, respect the fact that he shared them with you. If you do act them out, have fun, and don't take it too seriously.
24) Don't alienate him from the bedroom
Pretty frills and bright patterns and colors are all very well, but it's his bedroom too, and he may appreciate being consulted about how much lace you want around the place. In short, don't make your bedroom too feminine for his comfort.
25) Let his penis calm down after sex
Some men have such a sensitive glans after sex that they can't bear to have it touched for quite a while. So be careful of his penis after you have made love.
26) Explore his body
Despite being so penis centered, men do like being licked, touched and stroked all over their bodies. For example, a man's nipples are likely to be just as sensitive as yours - so encourage him to let you play with them. Some other places to stroke, tickle and lick him: his legs, buttocks and armpits; his neck and scalp; his toes; his back.....so that's just about all over his body, really!
27) Know how to kiss
Yes, it's nice to enjoy gentle kissing, but he'll certainly appreciate a bit of full-on mouth work from you from time to time. It hints at penetration and breaks down barriers to intimacy and familiarity.
28) Discover his favorite sexual positions
All the sex positions have something in their favor, but like most men, he'll have his favorite. It might be man on top for the deep penetration and feeling of dominance; it might be rear entry for the sheer pleasure of fucking you from behind; it might be woman on top for the pleasure of lying back and enjoying the ride. Most likely, it's all of them! But there will be ways in which you can make it even better for him, perhaps by squeezing his penis while he's inside you, or wrapping your legs around him when he's on top. Take the time to find out what turns him on, and he'll show his gratitude both in and out of the bedroom!
29) Don't fake orgasm
You're not a charity, and it's disrespectful to both of you to pretend you're sexually satisfied when you're not. If you don't make it to orgasm during intercourse, have your orgasm from him giving you oral sex before you have intercourse. Remember, very few woman actually reach orgasm through intercourse, and most they like it for other reasons such as feeling loved or giving their partner pleasure.
30) Learn to give great head
Nothing you can do for a man shows you love him like oral sex. Women think men like it because it feels good - and that's certainly true. But men also like it because it's the ultimate symbol of acceptance by their partner - that she will take his most precious part and accept it into her mouth. Good oral sex is at least as good as vaginal intercourse for me, and many other men as well, I'm sure. And when you know how to do it well, you'll have a lover keen to pleasure you in return.. You can read about oral sex tips here:http://www.my-penis.org/100sextips3.html
31) Develop a tight vagina
Apart from the fact that a healthy set of PC muscles is good for you, it does make a difference to men during sex whether their partner has a tight vagina or not. Some men say that making love to a woman who's had a child is much less satisfying - well, if the woman has toned up her muscles, with Kegel exercises, that need not be the case. So there we are! Some simple tips to make sex great for men. Like it or not, sex is incredibly important to most men, and most relationships go a lot better when the partners are enjoying fulfilling sex. If you as a woman get satisfaction from seeing your man happy in bed, then the tips above go a long way towards making that happen